Rachel Joy Scott, an 18 year old student attending Columbine High School on April 20, 1999, was the first of 12 students and one teacher to be shot that day. It's now more than ten years later and I've just now learned the story of her life and also the stories of those around her. To truly prove my point to you, I'm going to have to share a bit of my personal life with you, so here it goes!
My mother had taken care of me ever since I was born by herself until I was the age of six. At that point, my stepfather entered my life. He and I have never seen eye-to-eye, and always bickered. However, he was not the only one with whom I bickered. Tensions rose between my parents and I. I used to have a psychiatrist in whom I could confide in and divulge any troubles I was having in life. He was also my median to talking about issues with my parents. Well, one day the insurance didn't cover my visits anymore, so I didn't have anyone to truly confide in. Tensions still continued to rise between my parents and I. My parents moved around a lot and I couldn't keep many friends close to me, so I took up the computer as a pastime, both for something to do and to get away from life for a while. There are many people in which I converse daily over the Internet that I would not normally talk to in real life and stay connected because I move around so much. I took an interest in online communities and so this site was born. Enter: Aimee (Missaim). Aimee and I met on an old forum that has since been shut down. She was there for me when I needed her most, and I truly appreciate that. She was there when my parents weren't. Don't think that my parents didn't care about me; it just got to the point in which I couldn't approach them about anything. Right now, she is having troubles of her own and we have mostly slipped out of contact. If you believe in praying, I'd like you to say a prayer for her tonight. After I got home from school today from seeing this, I called my mother after three months and left a simple voicemail telling her that I love her. I didn't want her last memory of me being the argument and kicking me out of the house.
Rachel Joy Scott wrote an essay one month before she was killed. In that essay she wrote:
My codes may seem like a fantasy that can never be reached, but test them for yourself. And see the kind of effect they have in the lives of people around you. You may just start a chain reaction.
After seeing the presentation of her story and those who are involved in this project, I accept her challenge:
- Look for the best in others - eliminate prejudice.
- DARE to DREAM! Set goals and keep a journal.
- Choose POSITIVE influences.
- Use kind words, practice simple acts of kindness and get huge results.
- Start a CHAIN REACTION!
I purchased a pack of four kindness cards today. Whenever I perform an act of kindness, I will give one of the cards to somebody. Hopefully, these won't be wasted. If they aren't, that person will enter the number on the card into the Rachel's Challenge website, so that we can all see how far the chain reaction will spread. If it goes well, I will be posting regular updates of kindness here.
I used to sit around as a solitary person and let friends come to me. Well, no more! I'm going to start making a difference and befriend others instead! Please, don't just skim this post and sign. I'd like you to seriously read this and sign below if you are up to the challenge. I also have a personal challenge derived from her essay. In another part of her essay she says:
I have been told repeatedly that I trust people too easily, but I find that when I put my faith and trust in people when others would not dare to, they almost never betray me.
I challenge you to do the same thing. Put your trust in people. If they should break your trust, then they will have to live with that for the rest of their lives. However, if you trust someone and they do not betray you, then you have made a true friend.
I, Joshua Salter, have accepted Rachel's challenge.
For more information,
visit their site.The original essay is located
here.Thank you to everyone who reads this.